Does even the slight glimpse of a toothbrush send your toddler crashing into a complete meltdown? You’re not alone, because when it comes to keeping those chompers clean, kids can certainly be a defiant lot!
“It can be really tough for parents,” says Smile Solutions’ dental nurse and Tooth Fairy Karleen Giampietro.
But perseverance is key, as brushing your tot’s teeth is so important for his oral health and in the future.
“Making the process fun and interactive can help encourage your toddler to cooperate with brushing twice a day. If you manage flossing in there too, that’s a bonus,” Karleen says.
One appealing approach could be all it takes to get your child happy about brushing. So here are a few ideas to get you started.
Add some colour
“Let your toddler choose an age-appropriate toothbrush and let them know it’s an exciting purchase and it’s theirs,” advises dentist Dr Peter Alldritt, chairman of the Australian Dental Association’s Oral Health Committee.
Brightly coloured, character-emblazoned brushes usually go down a treat, as do musical brushes, brushes that glow or light up, and kids’ electric toothbrushes.
While the experts say your tot won’t be old enough to brush his own teeth until the age of eight, you can give a sense of independence by having two toothbrushes – one your child uses and one for you to finish the job.
“To help your toddler understand where they’re brushing, get them to first use their finger to feel right up to his back teeth,” says Karleen. Then give them a pea-sized amount of children’s toothpaste (if he’s older than 18 months, otherwise just use water) and encourage him to get in there. You’ll need to follow up with a thorough scrub of each tooth, particularly around the gum line.”
“If they’re not keen to let you brush when it’s your turn, tell him he can brush the spots in your mouth you missed if they lets you do theirs,” Karleen suggests.
Lead by example
Making teeth brushing a family activity can be a very successful tactic. “Watching their parents having fun while brushing their teeth will encourage a toddler to join in too,” says Karleen.
Siblings are great role models as well, so use them to your advantage. You can almost guarantee if a toddler sees an older sibling doing something, they’ll want a go too!
Those getting their teeth brushed don’t need to be human. If your pet’s good at getting his pearly whites polished, let your toddler watch and use this to encourage them.
“You can also see if they want to brush with a buddy such as a soft toy,” Karleen says. Make it more fun by getting them to pick a different toy each time.
Make it a game
There are lots of ways to make your tot laugh when the brushes are out. This will help turn the experience into a more relaxed affair. For example, you might think of a food your child has recently eaten and tell them you’re on a hunt to get that particular food out. “Telling your toddler you want to tickle the ‘sugar bugs’ out of their teeth sometimes works too,” says Karleen.
Try getting your littlie to sound out funny words (‘baaaaaaa’ or ‘staaaaaaar’), or go through the vowels. They’ll enjoy making funny faces and odd noises, plus this gives you access to different areas of their mouth. You can also play a teeth-brushing song. Use a timer or download an app with its own timer and games related to tooth time.
Chart the success
“I’m surprised at how successful the classic reward chart still is,” says Dr Alldritt. “A child loves seeing a visual of what they’ve achieved as well as getting a daily reminder of how good they’ve been.” But have you ever considered putting yourself on the chart too? It shows your toddler you’re also part of it, giving them even more encouragement, Dr Alldritt suggests.
As well as that daily stamp, gold star or smiley face on the chart, if your littlie reaches a certain number of days or weeks of great brushing, you could offer them a reward such as a special outing or something oral-hygiene related, such as a snazzy electric toothbrush like Mum and Dad have.
When all else fails and you need to get the job done, try distraction. “Brushing your toddler’s teeth while they’re in the bath is a good idea,” says Karleen. Not only are they likely to be more relaxed and already having fun splashing around, it can make the task less messy and means they’re in an easy, reclining position for teeth cleaning. Brushing teeth doesn’t have to be done in the bathroom either, Dr Alldritt advises, especially if that’s a place your toddler has built up negative associations.
“Try letting them watch something on TV that is only for when they’re brushing their teeth, so they associate teeth-brushing with something positive,” suggests Dr Alldritt.
“A toddler is often more cooperative when lying reclined on your knee as opposed to standing.”
You could also tell them a story and the longer they cooperates with brushing, the more they get to hear.