Does even the slight glimpse of a toothbrush send your toddler crashing into a complete meltdown? You’re not alone, because when it comes to keeping those chompers clean, kids can certainly be a defiant lot!
“It can be really tough for parents,” says Smile Solutions’ dental nurse and Tooth Fairy Karleen Giampietro.
But perseverance is key, as brushing your tot’s teeth is so important for his oral health and in the future.
“Making the process fun and interactive can help encourage your toddler to cooperate with brushing twice a day, and if you manage flossing in there too, that’s a bonus,” Karleen says.
One appealing approach could be all it takes to get your little happy about brushing, she adds, so here are a few ideas to get you started…
Add some colour
“Let your toddler choose an age-appropriate toothbrush and let him know it’s an exciting purchase and it’s his,” advises dentist Dr Peter Alldritt, chairman of the Australian Dental Association’s Oral Health Committee.
Brightly coloured, character-emblazoned brushes usually go down a treat, as do musical brushes, brushes that glow or light up, and kids’ electric toothbrushes.
While the experts say your tot won’t be old enough to brush his own teeth until the age of eight, you can give a sense of independence by having two toothbrushes – one your child uses and one for you to finish the job.
“To help your toddler understand where he’s brushing, get him to first use his finger to feel right up to his back teeth,” says Karleen. Then give him a pea-sized amount of children’s toothpaste (if he’s older than 18 months, otherwise just use water) and encourage him to get in there. You’ll need to follow up with a thorough scrub of each tooth, particularly around the gum line.
“If he’s not keen to let you brush when it’s your turn, tell him he can brush the spots in your mouth you missed if he lets you do his,” Karleen suggests.
Lead by example
Making teeth brushing a family activity can be a very successful tactic. “Watching his parents having fun while brushing their teeth will encourage a toddler to join in too,” says Karleen.
Siblings are great role models as well, so use these to your advantage. You can almost guarantee if a toddler sees an older sibling doing something, he’ll want a go too!
Those getting their teeth brushed don’t need to be human, either. If your pet’s good at getting his pearly whites polished, let your toddler watch and use this to encourage him.
“You can also see if he wants to brush with a buddy such as a soft toy,” Karleen says. Make it more fun by getting him to pick a different toy each time.
Make it a game
There are lots of ways to make your tot laugh when the brushes are out, which will help turn the experience into a more relaxed affair. You might think of a food your child has recently eaten and tell him you’re on a hunt to get that particular food out, for example. “Telling your toddler you want to tickle the ‘sugar bugs’ out of his teeth sometimes works too,” says Karleen.
Try getting your littlie to sound out funny words (‘baaaaaaa’ or ‘staaaaaaar’), or go through the vowels – he’ll enjoy making funny faces and odd noises, plus this gives you access to different areas of his mouth. You can also play a teeth-brushing song, use a timer or download an app with its own timer and games related to tooth time.
Chart the success
“I’m surprised at how successful the classic reward chart still is,” says Dr Alldritt. “A child loves seeing a visual of what he’s achieved as well as getting a daily reminder of how good he’s been.” But have you ever considered putting yourself on the chart too? It shows your toddler you’re also part of it, giving him even more encouragement, Dr Alldritt says.
As well as that daily stamp, gold star or smiley face on the chart, if your littlie reaches a certain number of days or weeks of great brushing, you could offer him a reward such as a special outing or something oral-hygiene related, such as a snazzy electric toothbrush like Mum and Dad have.
When all else fails and you need to get the job done, try distraction. “Brushing your toddler’s teeth while he’s in the bath is a good idea,” says Karleen. As well the fact he’s likely more relaxed and already having fun splashing around, this can make the task less messy and means he’s in an easy, reclining position for teeth cleaning. Brushing teeth doesn’t have to be done in the bathroom either, Dr Alldritt advises, especially if that’s a place your toddler has built up negative associations.
“Try letting him watch something on TV that is only for when he brushes his teeth, so he associates teeth-brushing with something positive,” suggests Dr Alldritt.
“A toddler is often more cooperative when lying reclined on your knee as opposed to standing, too.”
You could also tell him a story and the longer he cooperates with brushing, the more he gets to hear.